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Mayelana nalolu hlelo lokusebenza
Indlela yokuba nesineke kakhulu isicelo iqukethe amathiphu amaningi neziqondiso ezikusiza ukuba ubekezele, ikakhulukazi ezikhathini ezinzima.
Umuntu empilweni yakhe udinga ukubekezela. Ngenxa yokuthi emhlabeni esiphila kuwo, akukho okwenzeka ngokushesha futhi kalula,
konke kudinga isikhathi ukuze kuqedwe ngokugcwele. Amaphrojekthi nemisebenzi okufanele siyifeze ngeke iqedwe ngesikhathi esifushane ngaphandle kokuthatha isikhathi,
umzamo nomzamo oyidingayo .
Ngakho-ke, endleleni yokusebenzisa isineke kakhulu, uzofunda amasu amaningi namathiphu asebenzayo akusiza ukukhulisa isineke sakho nokubekezelela ubunzima.
Yini ebangela ukuntula ukubekezela?
Kubalulekile ukuqonda imbangela yokuntula isineke.
Into yokuqala okudingeka uyazi ukuthi abantu abaningi bazizwa bengenasineke.
Kungani kunzima ukubekezela?
Uma uzizwa sengathi uphelelwa yisineke eminyakeni yamuva, awuwedwa. Ukushintsha kwamasiko -
ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa kubuchwepheshe - kusisize ukuba silindele ukwaneliseka kwamanje.
Sonke siyazi ukuthi ukubekezela kuyimfanelo.
Kodwa singaba kanjani nokunye okwengeziwe ekuphileni kwethu? Singafunda kanjani ukubekezela?
Ziningi izinto eziholela ekuphelelweni isineke ekuphileni kwethu kwansuku zonke
Mhlawumbe umphathi wakho ukudlulisele kulokho kunyuswa futhi, noma iqembu lakho alenzi ngendlela obungathanda ngayo. Ungase uphelelwe isineke nawe.
Umuntu empilweni yakhe udinga ukubekezela. Ngenxa yokuthi emhlabeni esiphila kuwo, akukho okwenzeka ngokushesha futhi kalula,
konke kudinga isikhathi ukuze kuqedwe ngokugcwele. Amaphrojekthi nemisebenzi okufanele siyifeze ngeke iqedwe ngesikhathi esifushane ngaphandle kokuthatha isikhathi,
umzamo nomzamo oyidingayo .
Ngakho-ke, endleleni yokusebenzisa isineke kakhulu, uzofunda amasu amaningi namathiphu asebenzayo akusiza ukukhulisa isineke sakho nokubekezelela ubunzima.
Yini ebangela ukuntula ukubekezela?
Kubalulekile ukuqonda imbangela yokuntula isineke.
Into yokuqala okudingeka uyazi ukuthi abantu abaningi bazizwa bengenasineke.
Kungani kunzima ukubekezela?
Uma uzizwa sengathi uphelelwa yisineke eminyakeni yamuva, awuwedwa. Ukushintsha kwamasiko -
ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa kubuchwepheshe - kusisize ukuba silindele ukwaneliseka kwamanje.
Sonke siyazi ukuthi ukubekezela kuyimfanelo.
Kodwa singaba kanjani nokunye okwengeziwe ekuphileni kwethu? Singafunda kanjani ukubekezela?
Ziningi izinto eziholela ekuphelelweni isineke ekuphileni kwethu kwansuku zonke
Mhlawumbe umphathi wakho ukudlulisele kulokho kunyuswa futhi, noma iqembu lakho alenzi ngendlela obungathanda ngayo. Ungase uphelelwe isineke nawe.
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