The author, Rex Malik, shares his life story and journey as a gay man growing up in the US. He knew he was gay around age 14 and came out at 16. - He describes his early years in the 1980s after immigrating from South Asia, including crushes on boys in high school. He struggled to fit in and was shy. - He briefly attended Towson State University but dropped out after one semester. He later returned to college at George Mason University where he got more involved in the gay community. - The memoir covers his relationships and heartbreaks, struggles with depression, travels across the US and to places like Canada and Hawaii, experiences living in hostels, and efforts to find stability and community. - There are reflections on gay culture and history, including the AIDS crisis. The author discusses being discriminated against for being gay and his participation in LGBTQ activism. - He shares his passions like pop music, photography, and astrology. Moving frequently between coasts is a central theme. He describes attempts to find housing, jobs, and healthcare. - The memoir conveys the author's perseverance through difficult circumstances related to his sexuality, minority status, and mental health issues. It ends on a hopeful note as he finds acceptance and supportive friends.