From americaâs favorite marriage expert: âCould it be that what we have called âloveâ is not love at all? Could it be that for most couples, love comes after the wedding...?â âGary Chapman in The Marriage Youâve Always Wanted. But how does love grow? Respected marriage counselor Gary Chapman, author of the New York Times best-seller The Five Love Languages, looks at the key issues that will help you build the marriage youâve always wanted , answering such real-life questions as... Why wonât they change? Why do we always fight about chores? Why should we have to work at sex? In the warm, practical style that has endeared him to audiences worldwide, Dr. Chapman delivers advice on all the âbig issuesâ: money, communication, decision making, in-laws, and much more. Plus: Each chapter includes a âYour Turnâ opportunity for reflection and interaction with your spouse. Discover the âjoy potentialâ in your marriage and your âministry potentialâ for God!