Why does this happen? And why is it such a common phenomenon? It's because you are constantly evolving, and if you don’t change, you get stuck. In turn, this keeps you from being able to improve and achieve greater things in life. The first step is to acknowledge that you are growing and changing. Now is the time for you to take control, evaluate your goals, values, and desires, and work towards accomplishing them by playing to your strengths and addressing your weaknesses.