The Mentor: A Memoir of Friendship and Gay Identity

• recognizing the possibilities of exploitation by older gay men due to a lack of emotional and social experience
• creating a loyal relationship with a man that does not include sex but which satisfies emotional needs that many gay men need and long for
• discovering the importance of a mentor to gay youths, since there are few homosexual role models to learn from

Sincere and well-written, The Mentor provides insight into everything from the author's experience with intolerance of homosexuality by certain religions to struggles with fidelity and infidelity, illustrating the difficult yet universal challenges of life relationships. The Mentor contains suggestions that will help you recognize that your feelings of desire and love and your quest for human connection as a gay man are not the distorted reflections of a heterosexual image, but a healthy gay identity. With this unique book, you will discover how to make the shift from confusion to full acceptance of your gay identity, you will understand that you are not alone, and perhaps you will be encouraged to pass on the legacy of a mentor to other young gay men.