Stop Thinking, Start Living: Discover Lifelong Happiness

· HarperCollins UK
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Revolutionary in its simplicity and accessible to all, this bestselling book offers commonsense methods that allow you to let go of depression and tap into natural joy.

In this indispensable handbook, Richard Carlson demonstrates how we can change everything in our lives – earn more money, meet new friends, get a new job – yet still feel dissatisfied. Happiness, he says, is not 'out there' but within, a state of mind that is independent of circumstance: 'If you begin to see that your thoughts are not the real thing – they're just thoughts and as thoughts they can't hurt you – your entire life will begin to change today.'

Carlson's step-by-step guide explains:
• How your thoughts determine how you feel.
• Why thinking about problems only makes them worse.
• That thoughts come and go – you are free to choose at any moment which to hold on to and which to let go.
• Straightforward methods for conquering depression.
• How to dismiss negative thoughts and discover inner contentment.
• How to overcome lifelong pessimism and start really living.

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4.5
82 reviews
Mohd Adip
April 21, 2023
Favourite Quotes : Thinking is a voluntary function, and each of us has the ability to dismiss thoughts that are bound to lead to ‘an emotional storm’. Life can be so beautiful when we are not caught up in the coils of our own thoughts. Clearing the mind is the first step in appreciating this beauty. (Chapter 15) Favourite Chapter : The author brought up about living in the future mentality where someone states that he will be happy when ‘he gets a job’ or ‘he buys a car’. This type of mentality usually results in him not being happy during the process of achieving the goal and usually he will still not be happy after achieving the goal as the mind will continue to think of his next goal and the cycle will repeat. The author mentioned that even though setting goals are important, it is important to be happy, enjoy the present moment and find joy while working towards your goals. (Chapter 11) Personal thoughts on the book : I felt that at the start the author brings up issues of negative thoughts and the effects of having them. However the book did not explain what to do when having negative thoughts except telling the readers to stop thinking about it. About halfway through the book, the book starts to introduce ideas to overcome the challenges mentioned in the book. Overall the book gives good ideas and realisation to our thoughts but it just felt repetitive at times.
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A Google user
October 29, 2012
I been dealing with anxiety for a couple of years now , and tryed allsorts of things, then found this book which has helped me so much ! Its really easy to understand and digest. I hope it helps u like it has me
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A Google user
September 5, 2017
A good read. It simplifies things, and says the obvious. Yet, it's a good reminder of how we can control our thoughts, or at least try.
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About the author

Richard Carlson PhD is a stress consultant in private practice and the best-selling author of numerous books, including Don't Sweat the Small Stuff and Slowing Down to the Speed of Life. He is also the co-author of Handbook for the Soul.

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