Trapped in the Mirror

· Harper Collins
4.2
12 reviews
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In this compelling book, Elan Golomb identifies the crux of the emotional and psychological problems of millions of adults. Simply put, the children of narcissist—offspring of parents whose interest always towered above the most basic needs of their sons and daughters—share a common belief: They believe they do not have the right to exist.

The difficulties experienced by adult children of narcissists can manifest themselves in many ways: for examples, physical self-loathing that takes form of overeating, anorexia, or bulimia; a self-destructive streak that causes poor job performance and rocky personal relationships; or a struggle with the self that is perpetuated in the adult's interaction with his or her own children. These dilemmas are both common and correctable, Dr. Golomb tells us.

With an empathic blend of scholarship and case studies, along with her own personal narrative of her fight for self, Dr. Golomb plumbs the depths of this problem, revealing its mysterious hold on the affairs of otherwise bright, aware, motivated, and worthy people. Trapped in the Mirror explores.

  • the nature of the paralysis and lack of motivation so many adults feel
  • stress and its role in exacerbating childhood wrongs
  • why do many of our relationships seem to be "reruns" of the past
  • how one's body image can be formed by faulty parenting
  • how anger must be acknowledge to be overcome
  • and, most important, how even the most traumatized self can be healed.

Rooted in a profoundly humanist traditional approach, and suffused with the benefit of the latest knowledge about intrafamily relationships, Trapped in the Mirror offers more than the average self-help book; it is truly the first self-heal book for millions.

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4.2
12 reviews
Mitchell Gavrielides
7 April 2014
As the child of a narcissist, I found that this book opened my eyes to so many limitations that my father placed on me. Now that I'm aware of these things, I can begin to heal and hopefully live a more fulfilling life. Much of what Dr. Golomb describes seemed as though it could have been taken directly from my own experiences and I've heard others say the same about this book. It was an emotional but excellent read. I highly recommend to anyone with a narcissist in the family.
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Alan Bourbeau
24 June 2023
Another helpful book about handling people who are narcissists. I haven't purchased this book either yet when I do, hopefully it'll help me on how to deal with people who are narcissists such as my older brother.
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Destiny 100
8 February 2022
I'm stunned... yet, loving content like this really should be no shock since I fully believe God has led me directly to this book that I added to my wishlist some time ago. I bought it days after my phone alerted me it first went on sale. Yes, God is speaking to me through this book right now. It compiles of many concepts I've pieced together myself after much arduous work. I'm always exuberant when forms of my own revelations occur in a book. Besides that, I am learning very necessary content, too, that I hadn't known before and makes so much sense. God is real, y'all. Thank you so much, author, for being that vessel who God worked through to create and share this book.
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About the author

Elan Golomb is a graduate of Bennington College and earned her Ph.D. in clinical psychology and her certificate in psychoanalysis and psychotherapy from New York University. She has been in private practice in New York since 1972.

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