The secret to addressing the public's fears and anxieties is creating true confidence.
So many times have you been delayed by the fear of speaking? What chances have you missed? And how does that make you feel like that? Pretty poor I might imagine.
The fear of speaking in public is very popular. Simply put, you're not alone! You're perfectly fine. And this isn't your fault. It's possible that anything happened when you were young. It may have been as innocent as being laughed at in college. Who says that? All we do know, though, is that something has happened.
People who have glossophobia, fear of speaking publicly, may need some time to understand that they have a genuine phobia. It may take multiple trials and unsuccessful attempts to make an effective speech to make them know that they have a real problem. Typically, when the panic arises, the individual feels so dishearted by his abilities that his confidence is diminished and that he is convinced that he is worthless, or only "no good" when speaking openly. Through this way of thinking, the individual will then avoid being compelled to talk publicly at all costs and, when cleverly or luckily prevented, they will feel immense relief.